Pursue What You Love Before You Pursue Love with Jay Shetty
聽眾問工作野心和約會能不能並行。三人聊錢、平衡，以及怎麼選伴侶。
在 YouTube 播放，CC 可開英文字幕。建議先看「聽之前」，看完影片再做理解題。 到 YouTube 開啟 ↗
🎯 聽之前
A listener asks whether chasing a career leaves room for dating. Jay Shetty, Michelle, and Craig talk about money in relationships, balance, and how to choose a partner.
- What exactly is the listener's dilemma: too busy, too picky, or too scared?
- How does Jay reframe the choice between work and love?
- What does Michelle say she looked for in a partner?
- Notice how Craig brings sports or coaching language into the advice.
💬 重點句 6
先讀英文，想一下意思，再點「翻譯」。按 🔊 聽一次，然後跟著唸。
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You don't have to choose between the career and the relationship; you have to choose how you show up for both.
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If you're only interesting when you're busy, you're not building a life, you're building a schedule.
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Money is rarely the real fight; the fight is about what money stands for.
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Pick the person who makes you more yourself, not the one who makes you look good.
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Perfection is a moving target; the closer you get, the further it moves.
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Ambition and tenderness are not opposites; the best partners carry both.
📚 單字 10
點卡片翻面。先猜意思再翻。
🗣️ 俚語與成語 6
have it all
成語
to succeed in career, love, and family at the same time · 事業家庭兩得意
Can anyone really have it all, or do we just take turns?
put all your eggs in one basket
諺語
to risk everything on a single plan · 孤注一擲
Don't put all your eggs in one basket; keep your friendships alive too.
red flag
俚語
a warning sign in a person or situation · 警訊
Mocking your goals on the first date is a red flag.
pull your weight
成語
to do your fair share of the work · 盡自己的本分
Both partners have to pull their weight at home.
ride or die
俚語
a partner or friend who stays loyal no matter what · 不離不棄的死黨／伴侶
She is my ride or die; she showed up when nobody else did.
on the same page
成語
in agreement about something · 想法一致
Get on the same page about money before you move in together.
🧩 句型練習 3
讀完範例，用自己的事造一句。寫在筆記本或手機備忘錄裡，隔天回頭唸一次。
You don't have to choose between ___ and ___.
你不必在……和……之間二選一。
- You don't have to choose between rest and progress.
- You don't have to choose between honesty and kindness.
✍️ 寫一組你曾以為必須二選一的事。
Pick the one who ___, not the one who ___.
選那個……的人，而不是……的人。
- Pick the one who listens, not the one who performs.
- Pick the job that teaches you, not the one that flatters you.
✍️ 用這個句型寫你的選人標準。
The closer you get to ___, the ___.
你越接近……，就越……
- The closer you get to the deadline, the clearer your priorities become.
- The closer you get to someone, the harder it is to pretend.
✍️ 造一句關於接近某個目標的感受。
✅ 理解題 4
看完影片再作答。選一個答案會立刻顯示解釋。
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The listener's question is mainly about the tension between:
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Which topic is listed in the episode description?
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If a friend "settles" in a relationship, they:
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Jay Shetty is described in the episode notes as:
💭 用英文想一想
挑一題，用英文寫 3 到 5 句，或對著手機錄一分鐘。不用完美，說出來最重要。
- Do you believe people can "have it all"? What would that look like for you?
- What is one money conversation couples should have early? Why is it hard?
- Describe a trade-off you made between work and a relationship. Would you choose the same again?
📎 想再往下走
這集做完如果還想繼續，這兩個方向跟內容最接近。不是必要的，學習包本身就夠用。
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